Psychological/emotional causes of not enough libido consist of:
- just falling out in clumps of love together with your partner
- despair
- overwork, tiredness and sleep disorders
- issues with relatives/children – specially that lesbianism was sinful
- difficulties arising from major mental trauma like rape or childhood abuse
- bereavement – especially the loss of a child if they are living in the same house
- financial worries
- hang-ups from childhood – for instance, if your parents taught you.