A week ago, i came across myself at Cafe Gratitude in Los Angeles, consuming a scone that is gluten-free fuming about sex, as you does in 2016. In the obtaining end of my rant had been my buddy “Lori, ” a 23-year-old MFA pupil studying theory that is queer. I happened to be saying one thing like, “Sure, it is cool that people are now living in this post-everything world where sex is finished and hetero-normativity is off-trend and all sorts of the guidelines of sex are thrown out of the screen. Life is much more free now. But we’re also being forced to inquire of ourselves some questions that are serious. Like, ‘Does shaving my armpits make me personally a poor feminist m.flirtymania? ’ And, more pressingly, ‘Is my strap-on an icon of male supremacy? ’ If therefore, should it is set by me on fire as being a performance art piece? ”

Lori sipped her green juice and rolled her eyes. “i really like putting on a strap-on, ” she said, casually flipping her long curls behind her arms.

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